{"id":29986,"date":"2024-08-12T21:06:41","date_gmt":"2024-08-13T03:06:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/etre-une-survivante-signifie-que-jexiste\/"},"modified":"2024-10-07T12:16:54","modified_gmt":"2024-10-07T18:16:54","slug":"etre-une-survivante-signifie-que-jexiste","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/etre-une-survivante-signifie-que-jexiste\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00catre une survivante signifie que j’existe"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Je vais \u00eatre honn\u00eate – cela m’a profond\u00e9ment d\u00e9rang\u00e9 d’\u00eatre appel\u00e9 survivante. Pour moi, cela signifiait que je disais que j’\u00e9tais faible. Avant de participer \u00e0 la retraite<\/a> Saprea<\/a>, j’ai donc d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de chercher ce que signifiait le mot \u00ab\u00a0survivant\u00a0\u00bb. \u00c0 ma grande surprise, la d\u00e9finition m’a touch\u00e9 au c\u0153ur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00catre une survivante signifie que j’existe. Je suis toujours l\u00e0 et je prosp\u00e8re. Les abus sexuels dont j’ai \u00e9t\u00e9 victime dans mon enfance et au d\u00e9but de mon adolescence voulaient me d\u00e9finir et m’an\u00e9antir physiquement et \u00e9motionnellement. Pendant de nombreuses ann\u00e9es, j’ai lutt\u00e9 contre mon existence m\u00eame et je la d\u00e9testais. Ce n’est qu’il y a trois ans, alors que j’allais me suicider, que j’ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que mon choix n’affecterait pas seulement moi, mais tous ceux que ma vie touchait. Mon choix puissant a \u00e9t\u00e9 de choisir de m’AIMER pour la premi\u00e8re fois et d’exister. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00ab\u00a01. quelqu’un ou quelque chose qui existe encore apr\u00e8s un \u00e9v\u00e9nement qui aurait pu le tuer ou le d\u00e9truire.
2. Quelqu’un qui parvient \u00e0 poursuivre une vie r\u00e9ussie malgr\u00e9 de tr\u00e8s mauvaises exp\u00e9riences.\u00a0\u00bb <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plus aucune pens\u00e9e suicidaire ne viendrait obscurcir mon esprit. La d\u00e9pression<\/a> n’existerait plus pour voler tous mes beaux moments. La peur ne m’emp\u00eacherait plus de r\u00e9aliser mes r\u00eaves et la douleur de mon pass\u00e9 ne m’emp\u00eacherait plus de ressentir ou de recevoir de l’amour. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pourquoi ? PARCE QUE J’EXISTE ! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mon existence m\u00eame est PUISSANTE. Le fait m\u00eame que j’existe, que j’aie surv\u00e9cu, fait de ce monde, un monde meilleur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je n’oublierai jamais l’exp\u00e9rience que j’ai v\u00e9cue lors de la retraite Saprea. Elle a v\u00e9ritablement chang\u00e9 ma vie et a aid\u00e9 mon c\u0153ur \u00e0 s’ouvrir pour que je puisse recevoir l’amour. C’est \u00e9norme pour moi et c’est une grande avanc\u00e9e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Merci beaucoup \u00e0 Derek et Shelaine Maxfield pour Saprea ; c’est vraiment un cadeau du ciel. Merci beaucoup \u00e0 toute l’\u00e9quipe de la retraite Saprea. Votre amour, votre attention et votre soutien sont gracieusement appr\u00e9ci\u00e9s. Que Dieu vous b\u00e9nisse tous abondamment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c0 toutes mes belles s\u0153urs survivantes, je veux que vous sachiez que vous \u00eates aim\u00e9es, que vous comptez et que vous existez. Vous \u00eates plus puissantes que vous ne le pensez. Continuez \u00e0 briller en \u00e9tant vous-m\u00eames et n’\u00e9teignez jamais, je r\u00e9p\u00e8te, n’\u00e9teignez jamais votre lumi\u00e8re pour personne. Vous \u00eates faites pour briller. Enfin, r\u00e9jouissez-vous \u00e0 chaque \u00e9tape que vous franchissez. Vous m\u00e9ritez d’\u00eatre c\u00e9l\u00e9br\u00e9es. Je vous aime ! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Charmaine, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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