{"id":29945,"date":"2024-08-12T17:05:57","date_gmt":"2024-08-12T23:05:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/la-retraite-saprea-avait-quelque-chose-de-special\/"},"modified":"2024-08-12T17:05:57","modified_gmt":"2024-08-12T23:05:57","slug":"la-retraite-saprea-avait-quelque-chose-de-special","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/la-retraite-saprea-avait-quelque-chose-de-special\/","title":{"rendered":"La retraite Saprea avait quelque chose de sp\u00e9cial"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Je me souviens avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 abus\u00e9e sexuellement pour la premi\u00e8re fois \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e2ge de 5 ans. En raison du chaos qui r\u00e9gnait dans notre foyer, avec des abus physiques, mentaux, \u00e9motionnels et spirituels, je pense que les abus sexuels semblaient presque normaux. Au fil des ans, j&rsquo;ai demand\u00e9 de l&rsquo;aide \u00e0 plusieurs reprises, mais cette aide n&rsquo;est jamais venue. Au lieu de cela, on m&rsquo;a laiss\u00e9e me d\u00e9brouiller toute seule. Cela a continu\u00e9 jusqu&rsquo;\u00e0 ce que j&rsquo;aie 17 ans. Plus tard, au d\u00e9but de la vingtaine, j&rsquo;ai \u00e9galement \u00e9t\u00e9 violemment viol\u00e9e. J&rsquo;avais l&rsquo;impression de n&rsquo;avoir aucune valeur et je souhaitais dispara\u00eetre.       <\/p>\n\n<p>Au fil des ans, j&rsquo;ai cherch\u00e9 de l&rsquo;aide aupr\u00e8s de plusieurs th\u00e9rapeutes, et parfois je me sentais un peu soulag\u00e9e de la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/depression\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=depression&amp;utm_campaign=english\">d\u00e9pression<\/a> qui m&rsquo;accablait, mais la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/la-honte\/\">honte<\/a> et la culpabilit\u00e9 que je ressentais ne disparaissaient jamais. <\/p>\n\n<p>Une amie tr\u00e8s ch\u00e8re m&rsquo;a parl\u00e9 de la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/retraite-saprea\/?utm_source=survivor_stories&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=internal_link\">retraite Saprea<\/a>. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais sceptique et effray\u00e9e, mais je me suis dit que je n&rsquo;avais rien \u00e0 perdre et je me suis inscrite \u00e0 la retraite.  <\/p>\n\n<p>Alors que le moment de partir approchait, j&rsquo;\u00e9tais terrifi\u00e9e ! Qu&rsquo;avais-je fait ? Je ne connaissais pas ces personnes, mais j&rsquo;avais accept\u00e9 de leur donner quatre jours et trois nuits ! Je suis triste de dire que j&rsquo;ai fait marche arri\u00e8re et que je n&rsquo;ai pas particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite.    <\/p>\n\n<p>Bien que je n&rsquo;aie pas particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite de Saprea \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0, j&rsquo;ai senti qu&rsquo;elle avait quelque chose de sp\u00e9cial. Quelque chose qui pourrait \u00eatre utile. Quelque chose de porteur d&rsquo;espoir. J&rsquo;ai encourag\u00e9 plusieurs amis et membres de ma famille \u00e0 y participer. Lorsqu&rsquo;ils ont commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 partager leurs exp\u00e9riences, j&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 \u00e0 quel point j&rsquo;avais \u00e9t\u00e9 stupide de laisser cette opportunit\u00e9 m&rsquo;\u00e9chapper. Je me suis \u00e0 nouveau inscrite. Je n&rsquo;\u00e9tais toujours pas s\u00fbre de pouvoir le faire. La peur \u00e9tait insurmontable et j&rsquo;avais des limitations physiques dont je craignais qu&rsquo;elles ne m&#8217;emp\u00eachent d&rsquo;avancer.       <\/p>\n\n<p>J&rsquo;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 la premi\u00e8re de mon groupe \u00e0 franchir les portes de la retraite. Le soutien et l&rsquo;amour que j&rsquo;ai ressentis de la part de l&rsquo;\u00e9quipe m&rsquo;ont boulevers\u00e9e. Je savais que, d&rsquo;une certaine mani\u00e8re, j&rsquo;\u00e9tais chez moi.   <\/p>\n\n<p>Les femmes de mon groupe \u00e9taient toutes extraordinaires. Au fur et \u00e0 mesure que j&rsquo;apprenais de chacune d&rsquo;entre elles, je sentais, pour la premi\u00e8re fois de ma vie peut-\u00eatre, que je n&rsquo;\u00e9tais pas seule dans ce processus de gu\u00e9rison. Les cours et les activit\u00e9s de la retraite \u00e9taient tous bien con\u00e7us. Chacune d&rsquo;entre elles m&rsquo;a fait prendre conscience de quelque chose de nouveau. Tous mes petits besoins ont \u00e9t\u00e9 pris en compte.     <\/p>\n\n<p>Apprendre et comprendre comment les traumatismes ont affect\u00e9 mon cerveau m&rsquo;a ouvert les yeux. Je sais maintenant que je peux reprendre le contr\u00f4le et aider \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir les dommages caus\u00e9s par les abus. Cela a \u00e9t\u00e9 un tournant majeur dans ma vie. Je sais qu&rsquo;il me reste un long chemin \u00e0 parcourir sur la voie de la gu\u00e9rison, mais je sais que je peux compter sur de l&rsquo;aide. Je sais que je peux y arriver. Je sais que je ne suis pas seule !      <\/p>\n\n<p>Je serai toujours reconnaissante du changement que Saprea et la retraite Saprea ont apport\u00e9 \u00e0 ma vie. <\/p>\n\n<p>-Susan, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Susan est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance qui a particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite Saprea. 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