{"id":29939,"date":"2024-08-12T17:02:33","date_gmt":"2024-08-12T23:02:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/jai-du-travail-a-faire-je-peux-le-faire\/"},"modified":"2024-09-30T16:06:00","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T22:06:00","slug":"jai-du-travail-a-faire-je-peux-le-faire","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-du-travail-a-faire-je-peux-le-faire\/","title":{"rendered":"J&rsquo;ai du travail \u00e0 faire, je peux le faire"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>C&rsquo;est probablement la chose la plus difficile que j&rsquo;aie jamais eue \u00e0 \u00e9crire. J&rsquo;ai r\u00e9fl\u00e9chi pendant des jours \u00e0 la mani\u00e8re de m&rsquo;exprimer correctement. J&rsquo;ai eu du mal \u00e0 me d\u00e9cider \u00e0 parler, mais j&rsquo;aurais l&rsquo;impression d&rsquo;\u00eatre une personne horrible, \u00e9go\u00efste et ingrate si je gardais cela pour moi.   <\/p>\n\n<p>J&rsquo;ai eu l&rsquo;occasion de participer \u00e0 la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/retraite-saprea\/?utm_source=survivor_stories&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=internal_link\">retraite Saprea. <\/a> <\/p>\n\n<p>L&rsquo;ann\u00e9e qui vient de s&rsquo;\u00e9couler a \u00e9t\u00e9 l&rsquo;une des plus difficiles pour moi. La raison pour laquelle mon esprit s&rsquo;est souvenu de choses dont je ne m&rsquo;\u00e9tais pas souvenu depuis plus de 20 ans m&rsquo;a d\u00e9concert\u00e9e. Tout ce que j&rsquo;avais \u00e0 g\u00e9rer me paraissait insupportable. Je me sentais me r\u00e9duire \u00e0 une coquille vide, et je ne voulais pas en arriver l\u00e0. Alors, m\u00eame si j&rsquo;\u00e9tais p\u00e9trifi\u00e9e \u00e0 l&rsquo;id\u00e9e d&rsquo;aller \u00e0 la retarite, j&rsquo;y suis all\u00e9e.     <\/p>\n\n<p>J&rsquo;ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 de nombreux cours qui expliquaient les diff\u00e9rentes fa\u00e7ons dont notre corps et notre cerveau changent apr\u00e8s un traumatisme, toutes sortes de traumatismes, dont j&rsquo;ai eu plus que ma part. J&rsquo;ai appris que toutes les fois o\u00f9 l&rsquo;on m&rsquo;a trait\u00e9e de bizarre, o\u00f9 l&rsquo;on m&rsquo;a demand\u00e9 pourquoi je ne dormais pas, pourquoi je faisais ceci, pourquoi je ne faisais pas cela, et pourquoi je me sentais folle, il y avait une raison. Ces choses \u00e9taient normales pour les survivants de traumatismes, et certaines choses peuvent changer.   <\/p>\n\n<p>J&rsquo;ai beaucoup pleur\u00e9. J&rsquo;ai beaucoup ri. J&rsquo;ai \u00e9galement \u00e9t\u00e9 en col\u00e8re pour m&rsquo;\u00eatre laiss\u00e9 aller \u00e0 ces sentiments pendant si longtemps. J&rsquo;ai enfin pu dire \u00e0 haute voix des choses que je n&rsquo;avais jamais dites \u00e0 personne. Il m&rsquo;est impossible d&rsquo;expliquer \u00e0 quel point il est b\u00e9n\u00e9fique d&rsquo;\u00eatre honn\u00eate, m\u00eame si ce que vous avez \u00e0 dire est \u00ab\u00a0terrible\u00a0\u00bb. Je me suis fait des amies que je ch\u00e9rirai toujours et nous continuons \u00e0 nous soutenir mutuellement.      <\/p>\n\n<p>J&rsquo;ai re\u00e7u la forme la plus pure d&rsquo;amour inconditionnel, de gentillesse et de compr\u00e9hension de la part de parfaites inconnues. Cela m&rsquo;a compl\u00e8tement boulevers\u00e9e, car je n&rsquo;ai jamais pens\u00e9 que je valais beaucoup.  <\/p>\n\n<p>Plus important encore, j&rsquo;ai appris \u00e0 accepter que je m\u00e9rite d&rsquo;\u00eatre heureuse, que j\u2019ai de la valeur et que je ne suis pas seule. Je peux dire honn\u00eatement que cela m&rsquo;a sauv\u00e9 la vie. Je ne suis pas \u00ab\u00a0r\u00e9par\u00e9e\u00a0\u00bb ou \u00ab\u00a0gu\u00e9rie\u00a0\u00bb. J&rsquo;ai encore beaucoup de travail \u00e0 faire, mais je sais que je peux faire plus qu&rsquo;exister.    <\/p>\n\n<p>-Connie, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Connie est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance qui a particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite Saprea. 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