{"id":29909,"date":"2024-08-12T16:44:13","date_gmt":"2024-08-12T22:44:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/le-poids-de-mes-abus-mecrasait\/"},"modified":"2024-08-12T16:44:13","modified_gmt":"2024-08-12T22:44:13","slug":"le-poids-de-mes-abus-mecrasait","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/le-poids-de-mes-abus-mecrasait\/","title":{"rendered":"Le poids de mes abus m&rsquo;\u00e9crasait"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Le poids des abus et de tout ce qui s&rsquo;y rapporte avait fini par m&rsquo;\u00e9craser. Je ne vivais pas. Je ne faisais que survivre. Il ne me restait plus rien de moi-m\u00eame. J&rsquo;ai entendu parler de la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/retraite-saprea\/?utm_source=survivor_stories&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=internal_link\">retraite Saprea<\/a> par une amie qui \u00e9tait \u00e9galement une survivante. Un an plus tard, j&rsquo;ai enfin trouv\u00e9 le courage de m&rsquo;inscrire.     <\/p>\n\n<p>La peur est un euph\u00e9misme pour d\u00e9crire ce que j&rsquo;ai ressenti lors de mon voyage dans l&rsquo;Utah. Seule. Au milieu de nulle part, sans aucune familiarit\u00e9, sans conna\u00eetre personne et sur le point de me lancer dans l&rsquo;aventure la plus difficile de ma vie. Oui, je flippais.     <\/p>\n\n<p>C&rsquo;est pourtant la meilleure d\u00e9cision que j&rsquo;aie jamais prise. <\/p>\n\n<p>Non seulement j&rsquo;ai rencontr\u00e9 certaines des femmes les plus extraordinaires que je connaisse, mais c&rsquo;est l\u00e0 que j&rsquo;ai eu mon moment de rupture. Puisque je me suis enfin bris\u00e9e, je pouvais enfin commencer \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir (kintsugi). Lors de l&rsquo;un de nos cours, nous avons appris que \u00ab\u00a0les secrets engendrent la honte\u00a0\u00bb. Un \u00e9clair m&rsquo;a travers\u00e9. Je m&rsquo;\u00e9tais bris\u00e9e. J&rsquo;avais jur\u00e9 de ne jamais parler \u00e0 ma m\u00e8re des abus que j&rsquo;avais subis, car je savais que mon SECRET la tuerait. En gardant ce secret pendant toutes ces ann\u00e9es, je nourrissais toute la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/la-honte\/\">honte<\/a> qui m&rsquo;avait tant \u00e9touff\u00e9e.       <\/p>\n\n<p>La retraite Saprea et tout ce qu&rsquo;elle m&rsquo;a apport\u00e9 m&rsquo;ont donn\u00e9 les connaissances et le courage dont j&rsquo;avais besoin pour lib\u00e9rer mon d\u00e9mon et partager mon secret. La lib\u00e9ration. La libert\u00e9. La lib\u00e9ration qui a suivi la r\u00e9v\u00e9lation de mon traumatisme \u00e0 ma m\u00e8re ne ressemble \u00e0 rien de ce que j&rsquo;ai connu. J&rsquo;ai \u00e9limin\u00e9 tous les morts et les mourants d ema vie et j&rsquo;ai pu faire de la place pour cultiver la vie en moi.     <\/p>\n\n<p>Vous n&rsquo;\u00eates pas seul, et c&rsquo;est l\u00e0 que votre histoire change. <\/p>\n\n<p>-Tara, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tara est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance qui a particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite de Saprea. Voici son histoire. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18059,"template":"","categories":[73],"class_list":["post-29909","stories","type-stories","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-honte"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Le poids de mes abus m&#039;\u00e9crasait | Saprea<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Le poids de ses abus, \u00e9crasait Tara, survivante d&#039;abus sexuels. 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