{"id":29801,"date":"2024-08-12T15:29:29","date_gmt":"2024-08-12T21:29:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/comme-nous-navons-quun-seul-coeur\/"},"modified":"2024-08-12T15:29:30","modified_gmt":"2024-08-12T21:29:30","slug":"comme-nous-navons-quun-seul-coeur","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/comme-nous-navons-quun-seul-coeur\/","title":{"rendered":"Comme nous n&rsquo;avons qu&rsquo;un seul c\u0153ur"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Je suis n\u00e9e dans une petite ville de la c\u00f4te ouest de la Cor\u00e9e du Sud et j&rsquo;ai grandi au sein d&rsquo;une famille nombreuse. J&rsquo;ai d&rsquo;abord \u00e9t\u00e9 victime d&rsquo;abus sexuels \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e2ge de quatre ans. Puis, entre 5 et 7 ans, j&rsquo;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 abus\u00e9e sexuellement par mon fr\u00e8re a\u00een\u00e9 et l&rsquo;un de mes cousins.   <\/p>\n\n<p>\u00c0 la suite de ce traumatisme, j&rsquo;ai d\u00fb faire face \u00e0 de nombreux probl\u00e8mes tout au long de ma vie pendant des d\u00e9cennies, notamment en mati\u00e8re de <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/problemes-communication\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=communication_issues&amp;utm_campaign=english\">communication<\/a> et de <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/relations-dysfonctionnelles\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=dysfunctional_relationships&amp;utm_campaign=english\">relations<\/a>. J&rsquo;ai choisi de rester enferm\u00e9e dans mon propre monde parce que je pensais que si personne d&rsquo;autre que moi n&rsquo;\u00e9tait au courant de ces abus, un jour je ne m&rsquo;en souviendrais plus. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais \u00e9galement pessimiste \u00e0 l&rsquo;id\u00e9e de demander une consultation pour m&rsquo;aider \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir. Je ne pouvais faire confiance \u00e0 personne et j&rsquo;\u00e9tais toujours tr\u00e8s nerveuse et mal \u00e0 l&rsquo;aise en pr\u00e9sence de gens.   <\/p>\n\n<p>Je suis devenue plus vuln\u00e9rable aux abus sexuels et j&rsquo;ai subi des abus institutionnels de la part de mes professeurs et de mes coll\u00e8gues. J&rsquo;ai \u00e9galement \u00e9t\u00e9 abus\u00e9e par le petit ami de mon amie qui m&rsquo;aidait \u00e0 faire du baby-sitting.  <\/p>\n\n<p>Alors que j\u2019avan\u00e7ais sur mon cheminement vers la gu\u00e9rison tout en reprenant ma vie en main, j&rsquo;ai constat\u00e9 que les autres approches et programmes ne r\u00e9pondaient pas \u00e0 mes besoins. C&rsquo;est au cours de ma pri\u00e8re, au printemps 2010, que Dieu m&rsquo;a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 faire le lien et \u00e0 reconna\u00eetre que nombre de mes probl\u00e8mes provenaient de l&rsquo;impact des abus subis.  <\/p>\n\n<p>En tant que survivante, j&rsquo;ai toujours voulu trouver un moyen d&rsquo;aider d&rsquo;autres victimes d&rsquo;abus sexuels. En 2014, j&rsquo;ai cr\u00e9\u00e9 une association \u00e0 but non lucratif appel\u00e9e One Life One Heart (OLOH) International, \u00e0 Ames, dans l&rsquo;Iowa. J&rsquo;ai choisi le nom One Life One Heart pour illustrer le fait que la vie d&rsquo;une personne ne tient qu&rsquo;\u00e0 un seul c\u0153ur, qui porte toutes nos histoires, qu&rsquo;elles soient heureuses ou tragiques. Comme nous n&rsquo;avons qu&rsquo;un seul c\u0153ur, il est important d&rsquo;en prendre soin et de veiller \u00e0 ce qu&rsquo;il fonctionne correctement pour jouir d&rsquo;une vie saine. <\/p>\n\n<p>&#8211; Michelle, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Michelle est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance. 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