{"id":29763,"date":"2024-08-12T15:04:00","date_gmt":"2024-08-12T21:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/de-lautre-cote-de-lenfer-il-y-a-la-lumiere\/"},"modified":"2024-08-12T15:04:00","modified_gmt":"2024-08-12T21:04:00","slug":"de-lautre-cote-de-lenfer-il-y-a-la-lumiere","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/de-lautre-cote-de-lenfer-il-y-a-la-lumiere\/","title":{"rendered":"De l&rsquo;autre c\u00f4t\u00e9 de l&rsquo;enfer, il y a la lumi\u00e8re"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>J&rsquo;\u00e9tais sa fille, il \u00e9tait mon agresseur. <\/p>\n\n<p>En tant qu&rsquo;adulte, assise sur le canap\u00e9 dans le bureau de mon th\u00e9rapeute et tenant une photo de moi enfant, je me suis souvenue de la nuit o\u00f9 cette photo avait \u00e9t\u00e9 prise. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais innocente, mais la nuit ne l&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas, et ses actes ne l&rsquo;\u00e9taient certainement pas. J&rsquo;ai retourn\u00e9 la photo et j&rsquo;ai vu la date inscrite au dos : \u00ab\u00a01985\u00a0\u00bb. J&rsquo;avais 4 ans.    <\/p>\n\n<p>C&rsquo;est \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0 que je me suis lib\u00e9r\u00e9e de la culpabilit\u00e9, de la douleur, de l&rsquo;agonie de me consid\u00e9rer comme une victime. Je n&rsquo;\u00e9tais qu&rsquo;une enfant lorsque le seul homme de ma vie, qui aurait d\u00fb me prot\u00e9ger \u00e0 jamais, m&rsquo;a vol\u00e9e. Il m&rsquo;a vol\u00e9 mon innocence, mon enfance et, par ricochet, une grande partie de mon adolescence. J&rsquo;ai pass\u00e9 plus de 20 ans en silence, effray\u00e9e \u00e0 l&rsquo;id\u00e9e de dire ma v\u00e9rit\u00e9, d&rsquo;admettre \u00e0 moi-m\u00eame et surtout aux autres, la v\u00e9ritable raison pour laquelle ma vie d&rsquo;adulte a \u00e9t\u00e9 parsem\u00e9e de <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/dolour-physique\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=physical_pain&amp;utm_campaign=english\">douleur<\/a>, de <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/addictions\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=addictions&amp;utm_campaign=english\">drogues<\/a>, d&rsquo;alcool, de mauvaises d\u00e9cisions, de mauvais choix d&rsquo;hommes, de col\u00e8re, de rage et de culpabilit\u00e9.    <\/p>\n\n<p>Les enfants ne se d\u00e9fendent pas, parce qu&rsquo;ils ne le peuvent pas. On nous apprend \u00e0 faire confiance \u00e0 ceux que nous aimons et \u00e0 ceux qui nous aiment. J&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que l&rsquo;abus n&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas de ma faute, et je n&rsquo;ai plus permis qu&rsquo;il soit mon fardeau. Je lui avais d\u00e9j\u00e0 donn\u00e9 trop de ma vie. J&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 donner \u00e0 cette petite fille la permission de l\u00e2cher prise et de commencer \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir. J&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 reprendre ma vie en main. \u00c0 partir de ce moment-l\u00e0, je ne me suis plus consid\u00e9r\u00e9e comme une victime, mais comme une SURVIVANTE. J&rsquo;ai trouv\u00e9 ma voix et je ne laisse plus les actions ind\u00e9sirables de mon p\u00e8re dicter qui je suis, qui je deviens et qui m&rsquo;entend rugir. En novembre prochain, je f\u00eaterai mes 12 ans sans drogue, je suis la m\u00e8re d&rsquo;un magnifique gar\u00e7on et je vis chaque jour avec fiert\u00e9. Je suis la preuve que de l&rsquo;autre c\u00f4t\u00e9 de l&rsquo;enfer, il y a de la lumi\u00e8re.          <\/p>\n\n<p>-Sasha, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sasha est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance. 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