{"id":29751,"date":"2024-08-12T14:57:38","date_gmt":"2024-08-12T20:57:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/ne-plus-me-cacher-derriere-mon-traumatisme\/"},"modified":"2024-08-12T14:57:39","modified_gmt":"2024-08-12T20:57:39","slug":"ne-plus-me-cacher-derriere-mon-traumatisme","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/ne-plus-me-cacher-derriere-mon-traumatisme\/","title":{"rendered":"Ne plus me cacher derri\u00e8re mon traumatisme"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u00c0 60 ans, j&rsquo;ai pass\u00e9 ma vie \u00e0 cacher mes abus et mes souffrances \u00e0 la vue de tous. Pendant des d\u00e9cennies, j&rsquo;ai toujours eu le sentiment d&rsquo;\u00eatre \u00e0 la tra\u00eene, <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/la-honte\/\">honteuse<\/a>, \u00e9trang\u00e8re, et toujours <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/la-solitude\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=loneliness&amp;utm_campaign=english\">seule<\/a> et incomprise. Pendant tout ce temps, petit \u00e0 petit, j&rsquo;ai lutt\u00e9 en suivant des conseils, en faisant beaucoup de travail sur moi-m\u00eame, d\u00e9termin\u00e9e \u00e0 ne pas laisser cela d\u00e9finir ma vie. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais d\u00e9termin\u00e9e \u00e0 ne jamais, au grand jamais, m&rsquo;abandonner, quel que soit le temps que cela prendrait. Pourtant, il manquait toujours une pi\u00e8ce \u00e0 ma gu\u00e9rison.     <\/p>\n\n<p>Puis, ne se contentant plus d&rsquo;\u00eatre invisible, cette \u00e9tudiante \u00e9tait pr\u00eate \u00e0 sortir et ce professeur, la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/saprea-retreat?utm_source=survivor_stories&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=internal_link\">retraite Saprea,<\/a> est soudain apparu. <\/p>\n\n<p>Au d\u00e9but, je n&rsquo;ai vu aucune photo de survivante de mon \u00e2ge sur la page web. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais ravie qu&rsquo;il y ait quelque chose dont une plus jeune aurait pu b\u00e9n\u00e9ficier, mais je me demandais, s&rsquo;il y avait quelque chose pour moi, alors j&rsquo;ai pos\u00e9 ma candidature. Je n&rsquo;avais aucune id\u00e9e de ce qui m&rsquo;attendait, si ce n&rsquo;est que c&rsquo;\u00e9tait la toute premi\u00e8re fois que je me trouverais dans un espace o\u00f9 tout le monde pourrait me regarder dans les yeux et savoir qui j&rsquo;\u00e9tais, comprendre mon pass\u00e9. Rien que cela me rendait anxieuse et pleine d&rsquo;espoir. Ce voyage a \u00e9t\u00e9 remarquable.     <\/p>\n\n<p>Je n&rsquo;avais jamais consid\u00e9r\u00e9 les abus que j&rsquo;avais subis comme un traumatisme, comme je l&rsquo;ai appris ici, et cela a \u00e9t\u00e9 tr\u00e8s important pour moi. J&rsquo;ai toujours associ\u00e9 cette notion \u00e0 la douleur d&rsquo;autres personnes, en particulier d&rsquo;autres enfants, lorsque j&rsquo;apprenais qu&rsquo;ils avaient \u00e9t\u00e9 maltrait\u00e9s ou bless\u00e9s, et je l&rsquo;ai toujours accept\u00e9e, mais jamais moi. Pour la premi\u00e8re fois, au lieu de consid\u00e9rer comme une faiblesse le fait d&rsquo;avoir endur\u00e9 toutes ces ann\u00e9es d&rsquo;abus, je me suis sentie valid\u00e9e. Pour ma force. Pour avoir surv\u00e9cu.    <\/p>\n\n<p>Ici, j&rsquo;ai ressenti un grand soulagement. Je ne me sentais plus isol\u00e9e. On m&rsquo;a offert de nouvelles soeurs, un sentiment d&rsquo;appartenance, et j&rsquo;ai \u00e9merg\u00e9 avec un \u00e9veil gracieux pour me voir et m&rsquo;aimer comme la femme enti\u00e8re et belle que je suis.   <\/p>\n\n<p>-Lorraine, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lorraine est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance qui a particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite Saprea. 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