{"id":29726,"date":"2024-08-12T14:33:32","date_gmt":"2024-08-12T20:33:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/on-ne-peut-pas-menlever-mon-esprit-de-survie\/"},"modified":"2024-08-12T14:33:32","modified_gmt":"2024-08-12T20:33:32","slug":"on-ne-peut-pas-menlever-mon-esprit-de-survie","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/on-ne-peut-pas-menlever-mon-esprit-de-survie\/","title":{"rendered":"On ne peut pas m&rsquo;enlever mon esprit de survie"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>C\u2019est difficile pour moi de me souvenir de ce qu&rsquo;\u00e9tait ma vie avant le traumatisme. Ce dont je me souviens, c&rsquo;est que j&rsquo;avais presque toujours le sourire aux l\u00e8vres et que je voulais toujours rendre mon entourage heureux. En entrant au coll\u00e8ge, je n&rsquo;avais aucune id\u00e9e que ma vie allait bient\u00f4t \u00eatre affect\u00e9e d&rsquo;une mani\u00e8re aussi importante.   <\/p>\n\n<p>En 4\u00e8me, j&rsquo;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 victime d&rsquo;abus sexuels de la part d&rsquo;une personne en qui je pensais avoir toute confiance. \u00c0 13 et 14 ans, j&rsquo;\u00e9tais probablement l&rsquo;un des enfants les plus innocents de l&rsquo;\u00e9cole et je n&rsquo;avais aucune id\u00e9e de ce qui se passait \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9poque. Les abus ont dur\u00e9 pr\u00e8s de deux ans et ce n&rsquo;est qu&rsquo;au lyc\u00e9e que j&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 comprendre ce qui m&rsquo;\u00e9tait arriv\u00e9.   <\/p>\n\n<p>Au lyc\u00e9e, j&rsquo;ai fait de mon mieux pour repousser ces souvenirs et les garder secrets. Je craignais toujours d&rsquo;avoir des ennuis pour m&rsquo;\u00eatre retrouv\u00e9e dans cette situation et j&rsquo;avais l&rsquo;impression que c&rsquo;\u00e9tait de ma faute. Ce n&rsquo;est qu&rsquo;en premi\u00e8re ann\u00e9e d&rsquo;universit\u00e9 que j&rsquo;ai dit ma v\u00e9rit\u00e9 \u00e0 qui voulait l\u2019entendre. Plusieurs ann\u00e9es de souvenirs et de <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/flash-back\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=flashbacks&amp;utm_campaign=english\">flashbacks<\/a> ont fini par me rattraper et la douleur \u00e9tait trop forte.    <\/p>\n\n<p>En 2016, j&rsquo;ai voulu mettre fin \u00e0 mes jours parce que j&rsquo;avais l&rsquo;impression qu&rsquo;il n&rsquo;y avait pas d&rsquo;issue \u00e0 la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/la-honte\/\">honte<\/a> et \u00e0 la tristesse que j&rsquo;\u00e9prouvais. J&rsquo;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 hospitalis\u00e9e pendant une courte p\u00e9riode et j&rsquo;ai tout de m\u00eame r\u00e9ussi \u00e0 terminer ma premi\u00e8re ann\u00e9e d&rsquo;universit\u00e9. Cela fait maintenant plus d&rsquo;un an que je suis une th\u00e9rapie pour g\u00e9rer mon syndrome de stress post-traumatique, mon <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/anxiete\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=anxiety&amp;utm_campaign=english\">anxi\u00e9t\u00e9<\/a> et ma <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/depression\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=depression&amp;utm_campaign=english\">d\u00e9pression<\/a>. La gu\u00e9rison n&rsquo;a pas \u00e9t\u00e9 facile, mais trouver le bon th\u00e9rapeute a \u00e9t\u00e9 l&rsquo;une des meilleures choses qui me soient arriv\u00e9es. Je me bats encore tous les jours pour essayer de vivre avec le pass\u00e9 et ce que l&rsquo;avenir me r\u00e9serve.    <\/p>\n\n<p>Apr\u00e8s deux ans d&rsquo;attente, j&rsquo;aurai enfin l&rsquo;occasion cette ann\u00e9e de dire ma v\u00e9rit\u00e9 \u00e0 la barre, d&rsquo;affronter mon agresseur et, je l&rsquo;esp\u00e8re, de tourner la page. Le fait de savoir que mon histoire peut aider d&rsquo;autres personnes me motive \u00e0 aller jusqu&rsquo;au bout. Bien que mon innocence m&rsquo;ait \u00e9t\u00e9 enlev\u00e9e trop t\u00f4t, mon esprit de survie ne pourra jamais m&rsquo;\u00eatre enlev\u00e9.   <\/p>\n\n<p>-Ally, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ally est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance. 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