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Mon histoire commence vers l’\u00e2ge de huit ans. J’ai \u00e9t\u00e9 abus\u00e9e sexuellement par un membre de ma famille. Quelqu’un dont je pensais qu’il m’aimait en raison de ses paroles douces et de la gentillesse qu’il m’avait t\u00e9moign\u00e9e. Il m’a manipul\u00e9e et m’a fait croire que toutes les choses r\u00e9pr\u00e9hensibles qu’il m’avait apprises \u00e9taient acceptables. J’ai pens\u00e9 que ce que nous faisions n’\u00e9tait pas normal et j’en ai parl\u00e9 \u00e0 ma m\u00e8re et \u00e0 la femme de l’homme qui m’avait agress\u00e9e. L’affaire a \u00e9t\u00e9 balay\u00e9e sous le tapis et oubli\u00e9e. <\/p>\n\n

J’ai grandi dans la confusion, la r\u00e9bellion et l’indiff\u00e9rence<\/a>. Je ne savais plus ce qui \u00e9tait bien ou mal. Ce n’est que lorsque j’ai eu dix-huit ans qu’il a de nouveau abus\u00e9 de moi sexuellement. Bien qu’il s’agisse d’une autre histoire traumatisante racont\u00e9e dans le livre, j’ai \u00e9t\u00e9 soulag\u00e9e de savoir que toutes ces ann\u00e9es de souffrance avaient \u00e9t\u00e9 caus\u00e9es par un pr\u00e9dateur. Pendant ces dix ann\u00e9es, j’ai cru que je d\u00e9lirais. Tous les flashbacks<\/a> et les souvenirs soudains de mon enfance \u00e0 son sujet n’\u00e9taient pas des mensonges. Apr\u00e8s qu’il ait \u00e9t\u00e9 r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 \u00e0 ma famille, j’ai perdu de nombreux membres de ma famille. Mais maintenant, je sais qui sont les membres de ma famille qui sont vraiment l\u00e0 pour moi et qui m’aiment. <\/p>\n\n

Il m’a fallu du temps pour me retrouver. J’ai d\u00fb voir les choses comme si je recommen\u00e7ais \u00e0 z\u00e9ro \u00e0 l’\u00e2ge de huit ans. J’ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00e9crire des po\u00e8mes pour m’exprimer. Il ne m’a pas fallu longtemps pour commencer \u00e0 les partager avec ma famille et mes amis, puis sur internet. Je veux \u00eatre en mesure de d\u00e9fendre ceux qui se taisent, ceux qui portent ce fardeau et cette petite fille de huit ans. <\/p>\n\n

J’aimerais partager le tout premier po\u00e8me que j’ai \u00e9crit. C’est une partie de moi que j’ai cach\u00e9e pendant tant d’ann\u00e9es. Aux survivants qui lisent ces lignes, j’esp\u00e8re que ce po\u00e8me vous r\u00e9confortera. J’esp\u00e8re que vous sentirez un lien et que vous reconna\u00eetrez que vous n’\u00eates pas seuls. <\/p>\n\n

Si jeune. Si innocente. Si na\u00eff. Si pure… les \u00ab\u00a0je t’aime\u00a0\u00bb et les \u00e9treintes du c\u0153ur. Tu \u00e9tais la \u00ab\u00a0perfection\u00a0\u00bb \u00e0 mes yeux. Tu me prot\u00e9geais et m’aimais comme si j’\u00e9tais ta propre fille. Tu \u00e9tais mon \u00ab\u00a0h\u00e9ros\u00a0\u00bb. Si honteuse. Si perdue. Si engourdie. Si souill\u00e9e… que je ne pouvais pas m’en d\u00e9barrasser. La confiance qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 construite a \u00e9t\u00e9 bris\u00e9e en morceaux. Le pire mensonge que quelqu’un puisse jamais raconter. La fa\u00e7on dont la violation et l’abus ont \u00e9t\u00e9 nourris comme du pseudo amour. La fa\u00e7on dont tu as failli me d\u00e9truire. La fa\u00e7on dont le chagrin d’amour, la trahison, les moments de d\u00e9sespoir et l’amertume ont presque pris le contr\u00f4le de mon \u00e2me. Si patiente. Si courageuse. Si ouverte. La fa\u00e7on dont l’acceptation et l’amour sinc\u00e8re de ma famille ont lib\u00e9r\u00e9 mes pens\u00e9es n\u00e9gatives. La foi \u00e9difiante vers laquelle Dieu m’a guid\u00e9e a lib\u00e9r\u00e9 mon esprit. Non pas pour changer, mais pour grandir et gu\u00e9rir. Pour devenir la personne que je devais devenir. Une battante. <\/em><\/p>\n\n

-Charissa, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Charissa est une survivante d’abus sexuels subis dans l’enfance qui a particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite de Saprea. Voici son histoire. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18347,"template":"","categories":[104,116],"class_list":["post-29599","stories","type-stories","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abus-familial","category-flashbacks-fr"],"yoast_head":"\nBalay\u00e9 sous le tapis et oubli\u00e9 | Saprea<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Charissa, survivante d'abus sexuels, a d\u00e9couvert qu'\u00e9crire son v\u00e9cu l'a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir. 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