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J’ai \u00e9t\u00e9 gravement abus\u00e9e \u00e0 partir du moment o\u00f9 je n’\u00e9tais qu’un b\u00e9b\u00e9. J’\u00e9tais si seule et je voulais tellement \u00eatre aim\u00e9e, mais je n’ai re\u00e7u d’amour de personne dans ma vie. En fait, ce n’est qu’\u00e0 l’\u00e2ge de 17 ans que j’ai re\u00e7u de l’aide pour mes abus. \u00c0 ce moment-l\u00e0, beaucoup de d\u00e9g\u00e2ts avaient \u00e9t\u00e9 caus\u00e9s et j’avais besoin de beaucoup d’aide. <\/p>\n\n

J’ai eu un merveilleux th\u00e9rapeute qui m’a cru et ne m’a pas remis en question comme les autres. Pour la premi\u00e8re fois de ma vie, j’ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 faire confiance. Cet homme est devenu non seulement mon th\u00e9rapeute, mais mon pasteur, mon p\u00e8re de substitution et un tr\u00e8s bon ami. Il m’a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 surmonter beaucoup de souffrances, mais je me sentais toujours sans valeur, je ne me sentais toujours pas \u00ab\u00a0aim\u00e9e\u00a0\u00bb. <\/p>\n\n

\u00c0 20 ans, j’ai \u00e9pous\u00e9 mon meilleur ami. Il m’aimait de tout son c\u0153ur, mais j’\u00e9tais tr\u00e8s ab\u00eem\u00e9e et je n’\u00e9tais pas capable de l’aimer correctement parce que je ne savais pas comment m’aimer ou appr\u00e9cier une partie de moi. Nous avons eu plusieurs probl\u00e8mes et le mot \u00ab\u00a0divorce\u00a0\u00bb revenait souvent. Malgr\u00e9 cela, il m’aimait toujours et rien de ce que je pouvais faire ne l’emp\u00eacherait de m’aimer. <\/p>\n\n

\u00c0 30 ans, j’ai entendu parler de la retraite Saprea<\/a>. J’\u00e9tais d’abord sceptique, mais mon pasteur, mon mari et mes amis m’ont pouss\u00e9e \u00e0 m’inscrire et j’ai \u00e9t\u00e9 accept\u00e9e en l’espace de deux semaines. J’ai quitt\u00e9 mon domicile de la r\u00e9gion de la baie de San Francisco pour Salt Lake City, dans l’Utah. J’ai beaucoup appris sur moi-m\u00eame pendant le trajet et j’\u00e9tais pr\u00eate \u00e0 accepter toute l’aide qui me serait offerte. Je pensais savoir dans quoi je m’embarquais, mais je n’avais vraiment aucune id\u00e9e de ce qui m’attendait. <\/p>\n\n

Lors de la retraite, j’ai rencontr\u00e9 tant de femmes qui sont rapidement devenues mes \u00ab\u00a0s\u0153urs guerri\u00e8res\u00a0\u00bb, des amies et des femmes avec lesquelles j’ai nou\u00e9 des liens fantastiques. Chaque activit\u00e9, chaque session et m\u00eame chaque repas \u00e9taient porteurs de gu\u00e9rison. J’ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 autant de cours que possible et, lentement, j’ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 m’aimer et \u00e0 me consid\u00e9rer comme quelqu’un de fort et qui a de la valeur. J’ai parl\u00e9 de mon pass\u00e9 aux femmes de mon groupe et cela m’a fait peur, mais les femmes, les th\u00e9rapeutes, les gestionnaires de cas et toutes les personnes impliqu\u00e9es dans mon parcours de gu\u00e9rison m’ont aid\u00e9e. J’ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 me consid\u00e9rer comme quelqu’un qui m\u00e9ritait l’amour et j’ai enfin d\u00e9couvert que j’avais de l’espoir dans ma vie et que je pouvais aller mieux en appliquant les choses que j’avais apprises, en laissant les autres entrer dans ma vie et en m’autorisant \u00e0 \u00eatre aim\u00e9e. Pour la premi\u00e8re fois, j’ai appris quelque chose de tr\u00e8s important : <\/p>\n\n

JE VAUX LA PEINE D’\u00caTRE AIM\u00c9E. <\/p>\n\n

Apr\u00e8s la retraite, je suis rentr\u00e9e chez moi et j’ai \u00e9t\u00e9 accueillie \u00e0 bras ouverts. Je me suis \u00e9panouie. Je me suis ouverte \u00e0 des personnes que j’avais toujours \u00e9vit\u00e9es par le pass\u00e9. Chaque jour, j’apprends de nouvelles choses sur moi-m\u00eame et j’essaie d’\u00eatre aussi positive que possible. Je m\u00e9rite l’amour et j’en suis digne, et j’en suis convaincue au plus profond de mon c\u0153ur. Je remercie Dieu pour la retraite Saprea et pour tout ce que j’ai v\u00e9cu avant, pendant et apr\u00e8s la retraite. Mais surtout, je suis reconnaissante d’avoir appris l’amour. <\/p>\n\n

-Julie, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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