{"id":28865,"date":"2024-07-23T15:42:45","date_gmt":"2024-07-23T21:42:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/je-suis-en-train-de-gagner-cette-bataille\/"},"modified":"2024-07-23T15:42:45","modified_gmt":"2024-07-23T21:42:45","slug":"je-suis-en-train-de-gagner-cette-bataille","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/je-suis-en-train-de-gagner-cette-bataille\/","title":{"rendered":"Je suis en train de gagner cette bataille"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Je suis une survivante d\u2019abus sexuels, mentaux et physiques. <\/p>\n\n

Je ne me souviens pas de ce qu’\u00e9tait ma vie avant le d\u00e9but de mon traumatisme. J’avais 5 ans lorsque mon p\u00e8re a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 abuser de moi sexuellement. C’est \u00e0 l’\u00e2ge de 8 ans que j’ai compris qu’il s’agissait d’abus. Je pensais que je n’allais jamais m’en sortir et \u00eatre lib\u00e9r\u00e9e. <\/p>\n\n

Je faisais de mon mieux pour repousser tous les flashbacks<\/a>, les cauchemars et la douleur pendant que j’\u00e9tais \u00e0 l’\u00e9cole. Cependant, je me comportais mal et j’\u00e9tais toujours connu comme \u00ab\u00a0la sale gamine\u00a0\u00bb. En r\u00e9alit\u00e9, je pensais qu’en me comportant mal, quelqu’un remarquerait ma douleur et s’apercevrait que j’\u00e9tais victime d’abus. <\/p>\n\n

Les abus ont dur\u00e9 une d\u00e9cennie, pendant laquelle je ne me sentais pas assez forte pour pouvoir en parler \u00e0 un membre de ma famille ou \u00e0 la police. J’ai souffert d’anorexie s\u00e9v\u00e8re et j’ai planifi\u00e9 mon suicide. \u00c0 l’\u00e9poque, je n’avais pas l’impression d’avoir un but dans la vie, je ne pensais pas que les choses allaient s’am\u00e9liorer, j’avais l’impression de me noyer dans les secrets et je sentais que je ne pourrais pas me lib\u00e9rer des abus dont j’avais \u00e9t\u00e9 victime. <\/p>\n\n

Jusqu’au jour o\u00f9 j’ai eu un sursaut de courage et de force. J’ai r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 \u00e0 ma m\u00e8re que mon p\u00e8re avait abus\u00e9 de moi sexuellement pendant 10 ans, et je crois vraiment que c’est \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0 que ma vie a chang\u00e9 pour le meilleur. Ma m\u00e8re m’a sauv\u00e9 la vie. Elle n’\u00e9tait pas au courant de ces abus et lorsque je le lui ai dit, j’ai vu son monde s’\u00e9crouler, mais elle est rest\u00e9e forte pour moi. C’est la premi\u00e8re fois que j’ai ressenti un v\u00e9ritable soulagement, que je me suis sentie libre, que j’ai eu le sentiment de contr\u00f4ler la situation. <\/p>\n\n

Mon p\u00e8re a \u00e9t\u00e9 condamn\u00e9 \u00e0 12 ans de prison au terme d’une longue proc\u00e9dure. <\/p>\n\n

Aujourd’hui, je me sens plus forte et en meilleure sant\u00e9 que jamais. J’ai termin\u00e9 l’\u00e9cole, je suis all\u00e9e au coll\u00e8ge et je suis maintenant \u00e0 l’universit\u00e9 pour \u00e9tudier la criminologie et la psychologie. Bien que ce probl\u00e8me ne me quitte jamais et qu’il m’affecte chaque jour, je sais que je suis en train de gagner cette bataille. Je suis en train d’\u00e9crire un livre sur mon parcours pour aider les autres. Je n’ai pas peur de partager mon histoire ; je n’ai plus honte. <\/p>\n\n

Sans ma m\u00e8re, je ne pense pas que je serais ici pour raconter mon histoire. Elle a sauv\u00e9 et chang\u00e9 ma vie et je lui en serai toujours reconnaissante. <\/p>\n\n

Si vous souffrez, vous n’\u00eates pas seul et m\u00eame si c’est difficile, vous vous en sortirez. <\/p>\n\n

-Calais, survivant <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Calais est une survivante d’abus sexuels subis dans l’enfance qui a particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite de Saprea. Voici son histoire. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18715,"template":"","categories":[104,113,116],"class_list":["post-28865","stories","type-stories","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abus-familial","category-abus-physique","category-flashbacks-fr"],"yoast_head":"\nJe suis en train de gagner cette bataille | Saprea<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Calais, survivante d'abus sexuels, partage son histoire et explique comment elle gagne la bataille contre son traumatisme. 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