{"id":28816,"date":"2024-07-23T15:15:00","date_gmt":"2024-07-23T21:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/jai-retrouve-lespoir\/"},"modified":"2024-07-23T15:15:01","modified_gmt":"2024-07-23T21:15:01","slug":"jai-retrouve-lespoir","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-retrouve-lespoir\/","title":{"rendered":"J&rsquo;ai retrouv\u00e9 l&rsquo;espoir"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Jusqu&rsquo;\u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e2ge de 31 ans, je n&rsquo;ai jamais accept\u00e9 l&rsquo;id\u00e9e que j&rsquo;avais \u00e9t\u00e9 victime d&rsquo;abus sexuels dans mon enfance. Ce n&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 de ce que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais. J&rsquo;avais compl\u00e8tement occult\u00e9 ces \u00e9v\u00e9nements de mon cerveau. Ce n&rsquo;\u00e9tait m\u00eame pas quelque chose que je pouvais consciemment concevoir comme \u00e9tant r\u00e9el dans ma vie. Il a fallu que je me d\u00e9batte dans mes <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/relations-dysfonctionnelles\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=dysfunctional_relationships&amp;utm_campaign=english\">relations<\/a>, que je ne sache pas quel \u00e9tait mon chemin dans la vie, que j&rsquo;aie l&rsquo;impression que quelque chose n&rsquo;allait pas chez moi, etc. pour me rendre compte que je n&rsquo;avais peut-\u00eatre pas tout compris.     <\/p>\n\n<p>Vous voyez, j&rsquo;ai fait des \u00e9tudes pour devenir conseill\u00e8re th\u00e9rapeute. J&rsquo;ai suivi de nombreux cours, apprenant tout sur la fa\u00e7on d&rsquo;aider les autres. J&rsquo;ai appris des techniques pour responsabiliser les autres. J&rsquo;ai pay\u00e9 beaucoup d&rsquo;argent pour en arriver l\u00e0. Et puis j&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que j&rsquo;avais besoin de go\u00fbter \u00e0 ma propre m\u00e9decine.     <\/p>\n\n<p>En f\u00e9vrier 2017, alors que je passais du temps \u00e0 lire le livre \u00ab\u00a0Retrouver l\u2019espoir\u00a0\u00bb, apr\u00e8s qu&rsquo;un ami me l&rsquo;ait recommand\u00e9, j&rsquo;ai vu mon monde basculer. Ce qui m&rsquo;a le plus marqu\u00e9 dans cette exp\u00e9rience, c&rsquo;est d&rsquo;en apprendre davantage sur le cerveau en deux parties. Le fait de comprendre que le traumatisme m&rsquo;a fait fermer une partie de mon cerveau et que, jusqu&rsquo;\u00e0 aujourd&rsquo;hui, j&rsquo;y retourne, m&rsquo;a ouvert les yeux. En lisant cette partie du livre, j&rsquo;ai enfin senti que je n&rsquo;\u00e9tais pas seule. Cela m&rsquo;a aid\u00e9 \u00e0 mieux comprendre pourquoi ma vie \u00e9tait v\u00e9cue comme elle l&rsquo;\u00e9tait.     <\/p>\n\n<p>En mars de la m\u00eame ann\u00e9e, j&rsquo;ai particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/saprea-retreat?utm_source=survivor_stories&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=internal_link\">retraite Saprea<\/a>. J&rsquo;y ai r\u00e9affirm\u00e9 le fait que je n&rsquo;\u00e9tais pas seule dans cette aventure. Mes exp\u00e9riences sont uniques, mais le traumatisme ne l&rsquo;est pas. Cette retraite m&rsquo;a \u00e9galement rappel\u00e9 qu&rsquo;il existe des raisons l\u00e9gitimes pour lesquelles mon corps r\u00e9agit comme il le fait aux <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/declencheurs\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=triggers&amp;utm_campaign=english\">d\u00e9clencheurs<\/a> et m&rsquo;a enseign\u00e9 des strat\u00e9gies pour commencer \u00e0 me r\u00e9\u00e9duquer.    <\/p>\n\n<p>Je n&rsquo;ai plus peur de dire que je suis une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance et que cela ne fait pas de moi ce que je suis. C&rsquo;est simplement une partie de moi. Je n&rsquo;ai plus honte de faire partie de la statistique de 1 sur 4. Au contraire, je suis une battante. Je suis une survivante. Je suis forte. Je suis enti\u00e8re. Je suis digne.        <\/p>\n\n<p>J&rsquo;ai retrouv\u00e9 l&rsquo;espoir ! <\/p>\n\n<p>-Beth, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Beth est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance qui a particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite Saprea. 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