{"id":28774,"date":"2024-07-23T14:35:56","date_gmt":"2024-07-23T20:35:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/jai-un-nouvel-espoir-de-completement-guerir\/"},"modified":"2024-07-23T14:35:57","modified_gmt":"2024-07-23T20:35:57","slug":"jai-un-nouvel-espoir-de-completement-guerir","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-un-nouvel-espoir-de-completement-guerir\/","title":{"rendered":"J&rsquo;ai un nouvel espoir de compl\u00e8tement gu\u00e9rir"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>J&rsquo;avais 5 ans lorsque mon fr\u00e8re a\u00een\u00e9 a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 me maltraiter physiquement. Pendant les trois ann\u00e9es qui ont suivi, il a r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement abus\u00e9 de moi physiquement, mentalement et verbalement. \u00c0 l&rsquo;\u00e2ge de 8 ans, il a ajout\u00e9 l&rsquo;abus sexuel au m\u00e9lange. Cela a dur\u00e9 jusqu&rsquo;\u00e0 ce que j&rsquo;aie environ 14 ans, lorsqu&rsquo;il est parti \u00e0 l&rsquo;universit\u00e9. Je vivais dans une peur absolue chaque fois que mes parents nous laissaient seuls ensemble&#8230; et mes parents nous laissaient souvent seuls. Il m&rsquo;a menac\u00e9e de ne pas parler \u00e0 mes parents de ce qu&rsquo;il m&rsquo;avait fait, mais une fois, j&rsquo;ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 d&rsquo;essayer quand m\u00eame&#8230; ma m\u00e8re ne savait pas qui croire, alors elle a tout simplement laiss\u00e9 passer l&rsquo;affaire.. mon fr\u00e8re me l\u2019a fait payer la fois suivante o\u00f9 nous nous sommes retrouv\u00e9s seuls.     <\/p>\n\n<p>Les nombreuses ann\u00e9es de peur que j&rsquo;ai v\u00e9cues ont fait des ravages sur mon corps et mon esprit. J&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 avoir des probl\u00e8mes d&rsquo;estomac et des migraines d\u00e8s l&rsquo;adolescence. Je grince et serre les dents, ce qui a provoqu\u00e9 des fissures, du bruxisme et des probl\u00e8mes d&rsquo;articulation temporo-mandibulaire. J&rsquo;ai des probl\u00e8mes sociaux et <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/guerir\/relations-dysfonctionnelles\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=dysfunctional_relationships&amp;utm_campaign=english\">relationnels<\/a> qui font que je n&rsquo;arrive jamais \u00e0 m&rsquo;int\u00e9grer dans un groupe et que j&rsquo;ai donc tr\u00e8s peu d&rsquo;amis. Je suis aux prises avec des probl\u00e8mes de justice parce que personnene m\u2019a prot\u00e9g\u00e9 de mon fr\u00e8re et qu&rsquo;il n&rsquo;a jamais subi de cons\u00e9quences pour ce qu&rsquo;il m&rsquo;a fait. Lorsque j&rsquo;avais 18 ans, j&rsquo;ai racont\u00e9 \u00e0 ma m\u00e8re ce qui m&rsquo;\u00e9tait arriv\u00e9, et elle l&rsquo;a rapidement et discr\u00e8tement balay\u00e9 sous le tapis pour ne pas contrarier qui que ce soit&#8230; plus d&rsquo;injustice.      <\/p>\n\n<p>Au cours de ma vie d&rsquo;adulte, j&rsquo;ai ouvert le couvercle \u00e0 plusieurs reprises et j&rsquo;ai vraiment eu l&rsquo;impression d&rsquo;avoir r\u00e9gl\u00e9 le probl\u00e8me et pardonn\u00e9 \u00e0 mon fr\u00e8re et \u00e0 mes parents il y a longtemps. Je menais ma vie aussi sainement que je le pouvais. Au d\u00e9but de l&rsquo;ann\u00e9e derni\u00e8re, une amie a parl\u00e9 de Saprea et de sa mission qui consiste \u00e0 aider les femmes qui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 victimes d&rsquo;abus sexuels dans leur enfance. Je ne me souviens pas exactement de l&rsquo;\u00e9l\u00e9ment d\u00e9clencheur, mais ce qu&rsquo;elle a dit m&rsquo;a fait l&rsquo;effet d&rsquo;une tonne de briques et je me suis mise \u00e0 sangloter. J&rsquo;ai imm\u00e9diatement compris pourquoi je n&rsquo;avais jamais eu l&rsquo;impression de poss\u00e9der une quelconque beaut\u00e9&#8230; Je n&rsquo;\u00e9tais pas digne de me sentir ainsi \u00e0 cause de ce que mon fr\u00e8re m&rsquo;avait fait subir. Elle m&rsquo;a orient\u00e9e vers Saprea et m&rsquo;a encourag\u00e9e \u00e0 demander \u00e0 participer \u00e0 la<a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/saprea-retreat?utm_source=survivor_stories&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=internal_link\"> retraite Saprea<\/a>, ce que j&rsquo;ai fait.      <\/p>\n\n<p>J&rsquo;ai particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite en f\u00e9vrier 2018. Je suis arriv\u00e9e morte de peur, ce qui \u00e9tait essentiellement la peur de l&rsquo;inconnu. Ce que j&rsquo;ai trouv\u00e9, c&rsquo;est 23 autres femmes qui partageaient une histoire similaire \u00e0 la mienne, un groupe de personnel extraordinaire dont la seule mission \u00e9tait de fournir un espace s\u00fbr o\u00f9 ils pouvaient nous montrer l&rsquo;amour, la bienveillance et un chemin vers la gu\u00e9rison. Ils ont r\u00e9pondu \u00e0 tous nos besoins et juste au moment o\u00f9 vous pensiez qu&rsquo;ils avaient fait tout ce qu&rsquo;ils pouvaient faire pour rendre le temps<br\/>pass\u00e9 l\u00e0-bas extraordinaire, ils en faisaient encore plus. Ce furent les quatre jours les plus incroyables de ma vie. Je suis repartie repos\u00e9e, d\u00e9tendue et avec un nouvel espoir de gu\u00e9rison compl\u00e8te pour devenir une meilleure version de moi-m\u00eame. Pour la premi\u00e8re fois de ma vie, je peux me regarder et accepter que je suis belle et que je compte. L&rsquo;exp\u00e9rience de la retraite Saprea a absolument chang\u00e9 ma vie.        <\/p>\n\n<p>-Dana, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dana est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance qui a particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite Saprea. 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