{"id":28661,"date":"2024-07-23T11:48:49","date_gmt":"2024-07-23T17:48:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/seule-craintive-et-incapable-dobtenir-de-laide\/"},"modified":"2024-07-23T11:48:49","modified_gmt":"2024-07-23T17:48:49","slug":"seule-craintive-et-incapable-dobtenir-de-laide","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/seule-craintive-et-incapable-dobtenir-de-laide\/","title":{"rendered":"Seule, craintive et incapable d&rsquo;obtenir de l&rsquo;aide"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u00c0 l&rsquo;\u00e2ge de quatre ans, un membre de ma famille a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 abuser de moi sexuellement. Je me suis sentie pi\u00e9g\u00e9e, sans valeur, d\u00e9go\u00fbtante et bris\u00e9e. Pendant des ann\u00e9es, les abus se sont poursuivis sans discontinuer. Je me sentais seule, effray\u00e9e et incapable d&rsquo;obtenir de l&rsquo;aide de qui que ce soit. Mon agresseur m&rsquo;avait convaincue que si je me manifestais, personne ne me croirait, personne ne m&rsquo;\u00e9couterait et, pire encore, qu&rsquo;il nous ferait du mal, \u00e0 mon fr\u00e8re et \u00e0 moi. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais coinc\u00e9e. Pendant des ann\u00e9es, j&rsquo;ai gard\u00e9 cette douleur \u00e9motionnelle.      <\/p>\n\n<p>Finalement, \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e2ge de 16 ans, j&rsquo;ai parl\u00e9 de mes abus \u00e0 ma famille. Heureusement pour moi, ma famille m&rsquo;a incroyablement bien accept\u00e9e et soutenue. Ils m&rsquo;ont tous soutenue. Cependant, la gu\u00e9rison d&rsquo;un abus sexuel ne se fait pas en une seule \u00e9tape. Il faut toute une vie pour se soutenir et se retrouver soi-m\u00eame. Il faut des efforts et du temps pour l&rsquo;accepter.      <\/p>\n\n<p>Il y a un an, j&rsquo;ai pris la meilleure d\u00e9cision de ma vie. J&rsquo;ai particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/saprea-retreat?utm_source=survivor_stories&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=internal_link\">retraite Saprea<\/a> dans l&rsquo;Utah. Bien qu&rsquo;il s&rsquo;agisse de l&rsquo;\u00e9tape la plus effrayante de mon parcours, je savais au fond de moi que cette retraite \u00e9tait ce dont j&rsquo;avais besoin, et j&rsquo;avais raison. J&rsquo;ai rencontr\u00e9 des femmes de tout le pays qui savaient exactement ce que je ressentais et comment je me d\u00e9battais. Ces femmes, ainsi que les incroyables b\u00e9n\u00e9voles et membres du personnel, ont chang\u00e9 ma vie pour toujours. \u00c0 travers les activit\u00e9s et les liens, les larmes et les sourires, j&rsquo;ai retrouv\u00e9 l&rsquo;ESPOIR ! Quelque chose que je n&rsquo;avais jamais vraiment eu avant cette retraite. J&rsquo;ai pris conscience de ma valeur, j&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que je n&rsquo;\u00e9tais pas seule et j&rsquo;ai compris que je survivrais ! Je m&rsquo;\u00e9panouirais ! Et que tout irait bien. Je suis tr\u00e8s reconnaissante de cette exp\u00e9rience et je n&rsquo;oublierai jamais les femmes extraordinaires qui ont chang\u00e9 ma vie.           <\/p>\n\n<p>-Lauren, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lauren est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance qui a particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite Saprea. 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