{"id":28594,"date":"2024-07-23T11:11:53","date_gmt":"2024-07-23T17:11:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/"},"modified":"2024-07-23T11:11:53","modified_gmt":"2024-07-23T17:11:53","slug":"jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/","title":{"rendered":"J’ai choisi de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Les nuits blanches, les larmes vers\u00e9es, le ressentiment et les questions sans r\u00e9ponse. Voil\u00e0 en quoi ont consist\u00e9 des ann\u00e9es de ma vie. Les souvenirs que j’ai partag\u00e9s racontent l’histoire troublante d’une jeune fille qui, \u00e0 l’\u00e2ge de trois ans, a \u00e9t\u00e9 victime d’abus sexuels pendant plus de sept ans. La violence au sein du foyer a \u00e9galement fait de moi une victime d’abus physiques, mentaux et \u00e9motionnels. M\u00eame apr\u00e8s que ma m\u00e8re ait tir\u00e9 sur mon p\u00e8re et l’ait paralys\u00e9 en \u00e9tat de l\u00e9gitime d\u00e9fense, les abus ont continu\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n

Adolescente, j’\u00e9tais rebelle, remolie de haine et d\u00e9prim\u00e9e<\/a>. J’ai \u00e9t\u00e9 plac\u00e9e dans un foyer \u00e0 cause de mon attitude. Je me demandais constamment pourquoi j’\u00e9tais n\u00e9e dans une famille aussi dysfonctionnelle<\/a>. Apr\u00e8s de nombreuses tentatives infructueuses pour mettre fin \u00e0 ma souffrance, j’ai pens\u00e9 que la fugue serait la meilleure chose \u00e0 faire…. Tout laisser derri\u00e8re moi, c’est ce que je pensais ! Peu de temps apr\u00e8s mon d\u00e9part, on m\u2019a trouv\u00e9 et j’ai \u00e9t\u00e9 plac\u00e9e dans des familles d’accueil. <\/p>\n\n

Ce n’est que lorsque j’ai eu une vingtaine d’ann\u00e9es que j’ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de ne plus laisser ceux qui m’avaient fait tant souffrir dans mon enfance continuer \u00e0 me faire souffrir \u00e0 l’\u00e2ge adulte. Je n’allais plus \u00eatre une victime ! J’\u00e9tais victorieuse, une survivante! Le pardon a coup\u00e9 le lien qui permettait \u00e0 mes agresseurs de me contr\u00f4ler. <\/p>\n\n

Le pass\u00e9 a fait de moi ce que je suis aujourd’hui. Je suis une survivante, une m\u00e8re d’accueil, une m\u00e8re adoptive, une auteure, une conf\u00e9renci\u00e8re motiv\u00e9e et une coach de vie. Mon parcours est ce que j’en fais. Mon parcours a chang\u00e9 parce que j’ai choisi de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur ; j’ai choisi de trouver un but dans ma douleur. <\/p>\n\n

Je vis pour aider les autres \u00e0 trouver un but, ceux qui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 victimes, je les encourage \u00e0 devenir victorieux et \u00e0 ne jamais permettre \u00e0 ceux qui les ont autrefois retenus de devenir une pierre d’achoppement pour l’avenir ! <\/p>\n\n

Soyez forts, soyez b\u00e9nis et croyez en qui vous \u00eates cens\u00e9s \u00eatre. <\/p>\n\n

-Dawn, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dawn est une survivante d’abus sexuels subis dans l’enfance. Voici son histoire. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18755,"template":"","categories":[110,113,86,95,89],"class_list":["post-28594","stories","type-stories","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abus-emotionnel","category-abus-physique","category-depression-fr","category-idees-suicidaires-automutilation","category-relations-dysfonctionnelles"],"yoast_head":"\nJ'ai choisi de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur | Saprea<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Dawn, survivante d'abus sexuels, a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur qu'elle a subie dans son enfance.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_FR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"J'ai choisi de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur | Saprea\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Dawn, survivante d'abus sexuels, a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur qu'elle a subie dans son enfance.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Saprea\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/facebook.com\/saprea.org\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/I-Chose-to-Find-Healing-in-the-Hurt.jpeg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"500\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"500\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@saprea_org\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Dur\u00e9e de lecture estim\u00e9e\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\\\/\",\"name\":\"J'ai choisi de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur | Saprea\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2023\\\/09\\\/I-Chose-to-Find-Healing-in-the-Hurt.jpeg\",\"datePublished\":\"2024-07-23T17:11:53+00:00\",\"description\":\"Dawn, survivante d'abus sexuels, a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur qu'elle a subie dans son enfance.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\\\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\\\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\\\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2023\\\/09\\\/I-Chose-to-Find-Healing-in-the-Hurt.jpeg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2023\\\/09\\\/I-Chose-to-Find-Healing-in-the-Hurt.jpeg\",\"width\":500,\"height\":500},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\\\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/page-daccueil-saprea\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"J’ai choisi de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/\",\"name\":\"Saprea\",\"description\":\"\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#organization\",\"name\":\"Saprea\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2021\\\/12\\\/Vector-7-1.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2021\\\/12\\\/Vector-7-1.png\",\"width\":106,\"height\":105,\"caption\":\"Saprea\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\"},\"sameAs\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/facebook.com\\\/saprea.org\",\"https:\\\/\\\/x.com\\\/saprea_org\",\"https:\\\/\\\/instagram.com\\\/youniquefoundation\",\"https:\\\/\\\/pinterest.com\\\/saprea_org\",\"https:\\\/\\\/youtube.com\\\/c\\\/saprea_org\"]}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"J'ai choisi de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur | Saprea","description":"Dawn, survivante d'abus sexuels, a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur qu'elle a subie dans son enfance.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/","og_locale":"fr_FR","og_type":"article","og_title":"J'ai choisi de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur | Saprea","og_description":"Dawn, survivante d'abus sexuels, a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur qu'elle a subie dans son enfance.","og_url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/","og_site_name":"Saprea","article_publisher":"https:\/\/facebook.com\/saprea.org","og_image":[{"width":500,"height":500,"url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/I-Chose-to-Find-Healing-in-the-Hurt.jpeg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_site":"@saprea_org","twitter_misc":{"Dur\u00e9e de lecture estim\u00e9e":"2 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/","url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/","name":"J'ai choisi de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur | Saprea","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/I-Chose-to-Find-Healing-in-the-Hurt.jpeg","datePublished":"2024-07-23T17:11:53+00:00","description":"Dawn, survivante d'abus sexuels, a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur qu'elle a subie dans son enfance.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"fr-FR","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"fr-FR","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/I-Chose-to-Find-Healing-in-the-Hurt.jpeg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/I-Chose-to-Find-Healing-in-the-Hurt.jpeg","width":500,"height":500},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/jai-choisi-de-trouver-la-guerison-dans-la-douleur\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/page-daccueil-saprea\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"J’ai choisi de trouver la gu\u00e9rison dans la douleur"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#website","url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/","name":"Saprea","description":"","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"fr-FR"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#organization","name":"Saprea","url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"fr-FR","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Vector-7-1.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Vector-7-1.png","width":106,"height":105,"caption":"Saprea"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"},"sameAs":["https:\/\/facebook.com\/saprea.org","https:\/\/x.com\/saprea_org","https:\/\/instagram.com\/youniquefoundation","https:\/\/pinterest.com\/saprea_org","https:\/\/youtube.com\/c\/saprea_org"]}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/stories\/28594","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/stories"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/stories"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/stories\/28594\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18755"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28594"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28594"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}