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J’avais 5 ans quand c’est arriv\u00e9. Je ne comprenais pas ce qui se passait parce que je n’\u00e9tais qu’une enfant et que j’admirais mon beau-p\u00e8re. Il a toujours subvenu aux besoins de ma m\u00e8re, de mon fr\u00e8re et de moi-m\u00eame, mais il me favorisait. Pour obtenir les choses mat\u00e9rielles que je voulais, je devais le laisser m’utiliser. Pendant les sept ann\u00e9es qu’a dur\u00e9 cette situation, je me suis toujours sentie vide et perdue \u00e0 l’int\u00e9rieur, ne sachant pas quand cela s’arr\u00eaterait. <\/p>\n\n

Un jour, j’en ai eu assez et j’ai racont\u00e9 \u00e0 ma m\u00e8re ce qui se passait ; Dieu merci, elle m’a crue et nous avons fini par d\u00e9m\u00e9nager. M\u00eame si je suis sortie de cette situation de violence, j’\u00e9tais toujours d\u00e9prim\u00e9e<\/a> \u00e0 l’adolescence, je pensais que tout \u00e9tait de ma faute et que je ne m\u00e9ritais pas de vivre. Lorsque j’avais une vingtaine d’ann\u00e9es, une amie m’a sugg\u00e9r\u00e9 de participer \u00e0 une retraite<\/a> pour femmes afin de m’aider \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir de mon c\u0153ur endommag\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n

Je suis tr\u00e8s reconnaissante \u00e0 mon amie de m’avoir sugg\u00e9r\u00e9 d’y aller, car non seulement j’ai pu rencontrer d’autres femmes qui avaient v\u00e9cu ce que j’avais v\u00e9cu, mais j’ai enfin pu apprendre \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir. Chacune d’entre nous a racont\u00e9 son histoire \u00e0 tour de r\u00f4le. Nous avons appris \u00e0 nous dire que rien n’\u00e9tait de notre faute. Aujourd’hui, je vis ma vie sans me sentir coupable d’avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 abus\u00e9e ni m’apitoyer sur mon sort. Mon c\u0153ur portera toujours une cicatrice, mais j’ai choisi de ne plus vivre ma vie comme une victime ; au lieu de cela, je vis plus forte et plus heureuse. <\/p>\n\n

-Danielle, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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