{"id":28397,"date":"2024-07-22T13:22:20","date_gmt":"2024-07-22T19:22:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/je-suis-plus-sure-de-moi\/"},"modified":"2024-07-22T13:22:20","modified_gmt":"2024-07-22T19:22:20","slug":"je-suis-plus-sure-de-moi","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/je-suis-plus-sure-de-moi\/","title":{"rendered":"Je suis plus s\u00fbre de moi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ma fille a presque 5 ans, et c&rsquo;est la premi\u00e8re fois, dans mes souvenirs connus, que l&rsquo;on m&rsquo;a enlev\u00e9 mon innocence. Cela s&rsquo;est produit continuellement pendant des ann\u00e9es par la suite. Je regarde ma fille a\u00een\u00e9e et je me vois. Seulement, j&rsquo;ai pass\u00e9 la majeure partie de ma vie \u00e0 \u00e9viter le fait que je suis l&rsquo;enfant de mes propres souvenirs. Son \u00e9merveillement d&rsquo;enfant pour des choses simples et sa capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 se regarder dans le miroir et \u00e0 voir la beaut\u00e9 en elle-m\u00eame sont si magiques et pourtant si \u00e9trangers pour moi. Elle vit dans un monde que je n&rsquo;ai jamais connu et voir ce qui m&rsquo;a \u00e9t\u00e9 enlev\u00e9 se d\u00e9rouler sous mes yeux est bouleversant.      <\/p>\n\n<p>Ce sont mon mari et mes filles qui m&rsquo;ont le plus motiv\u00e9e \u00e0 participer \u00e0 la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/saprea-retreat?utm_source=survivor_stories&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=internal_link\">retraite Saprea<\/a>. Je savais que mon traumatisme affectait mon mariage et ma maternit\u00e9, mais je ne comprenais pas vraiment comment. Toute ma vie, je me suis regard\u00e9e dans le miroir et je me suis sentie \u00ab\u00a0pas r\u00e9elle\u00a0\u00bb, coinc\u00e9e et sans valeur. J&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 regarder ma belle petite famille et j&rsquo;ai senti que je voulais d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9ment m&rsquo;engager, donner l&rsquo;exemple de la confiance \u00e0 mes filles, mais je ne savais pas comment faire. C&rsquo;est alors que j&rsquo;ai particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite Saprea.     <\/p>\n\n<p>J&rsquo;y ai ressenti une libert\u00e9 que je n&rsquo;avais jamais ressentie auparavant. La libert\u00e9 d&rsquo;\u00eatre moi-m\u00eame, de me sentir belle, de me sentir utile, d&rsquo;avoir droit \u00e0 la joie et \u00e0 une amiti\u00e9 sinc\u00e8re avec d&rsquo;autres survivantes qui me comprenaient vraiment. Je me suis sentie en s\u00e9curit\u00e9, sans \u00eatre critiqu\u00e9e et, pour une fois, je me suis sentie tout \u00e0 fait NORMALE. Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 tout cela, j&rsquo;ai pu baisser ma garde et m&rsquo;impr\u00e9gner de toutes les informations et exp\u00e9riences.   <\/p>\n\n<p>Cela fait presque un an que j&rsquo;ai particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite Saprea. Je ne trouverai jamais les mots justes pour exprimer ma gratitude \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9gard de cette exp\u00e9rience. On m&rsquo;a donn\u00e9 de l&rsquo;espoir, une voix, des outils pour continuer \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir et, ce qui est presque aussi important que ces choses, on m&rsquo;a donn\u00e9 la permission de tomber et la gr\u00e2ce de me relever. Je suis d\u00e9sormais capable de participer plus pleinement \u00e0 ma propre vie. Je suis une meilleure \u00e9pouse, une meilleure m\u00e8re et une personne plus confiante. Je vous remercie du fond du c\u0153ur pour tout ce que vous m&rsquo;avez apport\u00e9. Je vais continuer \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir pour moi-m\u00eame (parce que je le vaux bien !!!), pour mon mari et pour mes filles.      <\/p>\n\n<p>-Kristina, survivante <\/p>\n\n<p>P.S. Aux amis qui m&rsquo;ont envoy\u00e9e l\u00e0-bas (vous savez qui vous \u00eates), merci d&rsquo;avoir cru que j&rsquo;avais assez de valeur pour commencer mon parcours de gu\u00e9rison. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kristina est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance qui a particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite de Saprea. 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