{"id":28335,"date":"2024-07-22T12:44:59","date_gmt":"2024-07-22T18:44:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/ma-vie-etait-depourvue-despoir-et-de-paix\/"},"modified":"2024-09-30T16:11:14","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T22:11:14","slug":"ma-vie-etait-depourvue-despoir-et-de-paix","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/ma-vie-etait-depourvue-despoir-et-de-paix\/","title":{"rendered":"Ma vie \u00e9tait d\u00e9pourvue d&rsquo;espoir et de paix"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Participer \u00e0 la <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/saprea-retreat?utm_source=survivor_stories&amp;utm_medium=website&amp;utm_campaign=internal_link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">retraite Saprea<\/a> a \u00e9t\u00e9 la d\u00e9cision la plus \u00e9tonnante que j&rsquo;aie jamais prise pour moi-m\u00eame. Je suis une femme bien inform\u00e9e sur la pr\u00e9valence et l&rsquo;impact des agressions sexuelles dans notre soci\u00e9t\u00e9. Je connais les chiffres. Je peux les citer en dormant. Pourtant, je n&rsquo;y ai jamais vraiment cru. Pas \u00e0 un niveau aussi profond et personnel.      <\/p>\n\n<p>Apr\u00e8s avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 victime d&rsquo;une agression sexuelle, j&rsquo;ai pass\u00e9 ma vie \u00e0 croire \u00e0 d&rsquo;horribles mensonges \u00e0 mon sujet. Je croyais que je ne valais rien. Que ce qui m&rsquo;\u00e9tait arriv\u00e9 \u00e9tait de ma faute. Que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais destin\u00e9e \u00e0 une vie de d\u00e9sespoir et d&rsquo;abus. Lorsque les choses allaient mal dans ma vie, j&rsquo;\u00e9tais encore plus convaincue de ces mensonges et d&rsquo;autres mensonges. Des mensonges qui m&rsquo;ont emp\u00each\u00e9e d&rsquo;avancer. M\u00eame lorsque je croyais que les autres m\u00e9ritaient mieux, que les autres n&rsquo;avaient jamais demand\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00eatre agress\u00e9s. Je n&rsquo;arrivais toujours pas \u00e0 y croire pour moi.        <\/p>\n\n<p>Pendant si longtemps, ma vie a \u00e9t\u00e9 d\u00e9pourvue d&rsquo;espoir et de paix. La retraite Saprea me l&rsquo;a rendu. Je suis entr\u00e9e dans une salle o\u00f9 se trouvaient des femmes que je n&rsquo;aurais jamais consid\u00e9r\u00e9es comme des survivantes d&rsquo;abus sexuels. J&rsquo;ai rencontr\u00e9 des m\u00e8res, des s\u0153urs, des grands-m\u00e8res. J&rsquo;ai rencontr\u00e9 des femmes \u00e0 la t\u00eate de leur propre entreprise. Des auteurs et des conf\u00e9renci\u00e8res. J&rsquo;ai rencontr\u00e9 des professionnels et des fournisseurs d&rsquo;assistance technique. Aucune de ces femmes n\u2019avais l\u2019air d\u2019avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 une victime. Elles \u00e9taient fortes, puissantes, belles. Et pour la premi\u00e8re fois depuis des ann\u00e9es, j&rsquo;ai pens\u00e9 qu&rsquo;il y avait une chance que je puisse \u00eatre l&rsquo;une d&rsquo;entre elles. Que quelqu&rsquo;un pouvait me voir ainsi.          <\/p>\n\n<p>Tout au long de mon s\u00e9jour, j&rsquo;ai d\u00e9couvert l&rsquo;histoire de ces autres femmes. Chacune d&rsquo;entre elles m&rsquo;a parl\u00e9 directement \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e2me. Chaque jour, nous avons appris de nouvelles techniques de gu\u00e9rison et avons \u00e9t\u00e9 inform\u00e9es sur les traumatismes d&rsquo;une mani\u00e8re que m\u00eame moi, \u00e9tudiante en psychologie, n&rsquo;avais jamais envisag\u00e9e. On nous a fourni des ressources et on nous a donn\u00e9 un site web \u00e0 consulter une fois rentr\u00e9es chez nous, au cas o\u00f9 nous aurions oubli\u00e9 certaines choses. J&rsquo;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 nourrie de fa\u00e7on extraordinaire, j&rsquo;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 choy\u00e9e et toutes les distractions ont \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e9limin\u00e9es pour que je puisse me concentrer sur la gu\u00e9rison. J&rsquo;ai nou\u00e9 des relations extraordinaires. Ces femmes sont devenues ma tribu, ma communaut\u00e9, mes copines. Nous avons pleur\u00e9 \u00e0 chaudes larmes lorsque nous avons d\u00fb nous quitter, m\u00eame si nous sommes rest\u00e9es connect\u00e9es via Facebook et nos t\u00e9l\u00e9phones. J&rsquo;ai l&rsquo;impression de conna\u00eetre ces femmes depuis toujours.         <\/p>\n\n<p>Mais le plus beau, c&rsquo;est la fa\u00e7on dont j&rsquo;ai chang\u00e9. Je ne crois plus \u00e0 ces mensonges sur moi-m\u00eame. Je sais qu&rsquo;ils essaieront de se r\u00e9ins\u00e9rer dans ma vie et de prendre le dessus sur ce que je suis. J&rsquo;aurai cependant la meilleure armure pour me prot\u00e9ger, et c&rsquo;est l&rsquo;amour et le soutien de mes s\u0153urs de retraite. Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 cette retraite, gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 ces femmes et au personnel de Saprea, je peux maintenant dire que je suis FORTE ! Je suis intelligente ! Je suis BELLE ! Je suis CAPABLE ! Je suis g\u00e9niale ! Je peux m&rsquo;en sortir. Il m&rsquo;a peut-\u00eatre bris\u00e9e, mais je vais recoller les morceaux d&rsquo;une mani\u00e8re qui me rendra plus forte et plus belle qu&rsquo;il ne pourra jamais l&rsquo;imaginer. Merci, Saprea, vous avez chang\u00e9 ma vie et j&rsquo;ai h\u00e2te d&rsquo;aller de l&rsquo;avant.            <\/p>\n\n<p>-Bri, survivante <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bri est une survivante d&rsquo;abus sexuels subis dans l&rsquo;enfance qui a particip\u00e9 \u00e0 la retraite Saprea. 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