{"id":28309,"date":"2024-07-22T12:11:33","date_gmt":"2024-07-22T18:11:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/"},"modified":"2024-07-22T12:11:33","modified_gmt":"2024-07-22T18:11:33","slug":"garcon-a-la-fenetre","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/","title":{"rendered":"Gar\u00e7on \u00e0 la fen\u00eatre"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Je suis n\u00e9 dans une belle petite ville de Belfast, en Irlande du Nord. Les neuf premi\u00e8res ann\u00e9es de ma vie ont \u00e9t\u00e9 merveilleuses. Cependant, en 1967, mon enfance a \u00e9t\u00e9 brusquement g\u00e2ch\u00e9e par le fr\u00e8re a\u00een\u00e9 de mon meilleur ami. <\/p>\n\n

Souvent, lorsque j’allais jouer chez mon meilleur ami, son fr\u00e8re a\u00een\u00e9 \u00e9tait \u00e0 la maison, cach\u00e9 dans l’ombre, attendant l’occasion d’abuser de moi. Je me souviens d’avoir entendu le bruit d’une porte qui se ferme et d’avoir su que j’allais avoir des ennuis. Je ressentais un sentiment d’impuissance, sachant ce qui m’attendait. <\/p>\n\n

Le fait d’avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 maltrait\u00e9e par lui pendant pr\u00e8s de trois ans et de penser que mon ami aurait d\u00fb prendre ma d\u00e9fense et ne pas permettre \u00e0 son fr\u00e8re d’abuser de moi sexuellement a eu un impact sur moi. Je n’arrive pas \u00e0 comprendre pourquoi je le consid\u00e9rais encore comme mon meilleur ami. <\/p>\n\n

La honte<\/a> me rongeait de l’int\u00e9rieur, et le fait est que ce n’\u00e9tait m\u00eame pas ma honte que je devais porter. J’avais l’impression que c’\u00e9tait le cas, mais ce n’\u00e9tait pas ma faute. C’est moi dont on abusait, mais pour une raison ou une autre, j’ai ressenti le besoin de garder cela en moi, trop honteux pour le partager avec qui que ce soit. J’avais l’impression que cette honte justifiait ma souffrance. <\/p>\n\n

Il m’a fallu de nombreuses ann\u00e9es pour parler \u00e0 quelqu’un de ces abus. C’\u00e9tait difficile et douloureux. Et pourtant, c’est ce que j’avais besoin de faire, d’en parler ouvertement. Cependant, le fait d’en parler enfin m’a oblig\u00e9 \u00e0 faire face \u00e0 ce traumatisme. Le temps et l’aide des bonnes personnes m’ont permis de gu\u00e9rir. Je suis aujourd’hui capable d’identifier les effets des abus que j’ai subis et de r\u00e9aliser combien d’autres personnes ont v\u00e9cu des exp\u00e9riences similaires. <\/p>\n\n

Une chose dont je suis s\u00fbr, cependant, c’est qu’il faut y faire face pour que la gu\u00e9rison commence et que si je peux traverser ce long tunnel sombre et atteindre l’autre c\u00f4t\u00e9, vous le pouvez aussi. C’est ce que je souhaite le plus pour vous – vous en valez la peine ! <\/p>\n\n

– James, survivant <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

James est une survivante d’abus sexuels subis dans l’enfance. Voici son histoire. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18899,"template":"","categories":[73],"class_list":["post-28309","stories","type-stories","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-honte"],"yoast_head":"\nGar\u00e7on \u00e0 la fen\u00eatre | Saprea<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"James, survivante d'abus sexuels, partage son exp\u00e9rience et d\u00e9crit comment le temps et l'aide des bonnes personnes ont apport\u00e9 la gu\u00e9rison.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_FR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Gar\u00e7on \u00e0 la fen\u00eatre | Saprea\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"James, survivante d'abus sexuels, partage son exp\u00e9rience et d\u00e9crit comment le temps et l'aide des bonnes personnes ont apport\u00e9 la gu\u00e9rison.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Saprea\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/facebook.com\/saprea.org\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/127.0.0.1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Boy-in-the-Window.jpeg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"810\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"810\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@saprea_org\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Dur\u00e9e de lecture estim\u00e9e\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\\\/\",\"name\":\"Gar\u00e7on \u00e0 la fen\u00eatre | Saprea\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2023\\\/09\\\/Boy-in-the-Window.jpeg\",\"datePublished\":\"2024-07-22T18:11:33+00:00\",\"description\":\"James, survivante d'abus sexuels, partage son exp\u00e9rience et d\u00e9crit comment le temps et l'aide des bonnes personnes ont apport\u00e9 la gu\u00e9rison.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\\\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\\\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\\\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2023\\\/09\\\/Boy-in-the-Window.jpeg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2023\\\/09\\\/Boy-in-the-Window.jpeg\",\"width\":810,\"height\":810},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/stories\\\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\\\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/page-daccueil-saprea\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Gar\u00e7on \u00e0 la fen\u00eatre\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/\",\"name\":\"Saprea\",\"description\":\"\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#organization\",\"name\":\"Saprea\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2021\\\/12\\\/Vector-7-1.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2021\\\/12\\\/Vector-7-1.png\",\"width\":106,\"height\":105,\"caption\":\"Saprea\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/saprea.org\\\/fr\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\"},\"sameAs\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/facebook.com\\\/saprea.org\",\"https:\\\/\\\/x.com\\\/saprea_org\",\"https:\\\/\\\/instagram.com\\\/youniquefoundation\",\"https:\\\/\\\/pinterest.com\\\/saprea_org\",\"https:\\\/\\\/youtube.com\\\/c\\\/saprea_org\"]}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Gar\u00e7on \u00e0 la fen\u00eatre | Saprea","description":"James, survivante d'abus sexuels, partage son exp\u00e9rience et d\u00e9crit comment le temps et l'aide des bonnes personnes ont apport\u00e9 la gu\u00e9rison.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/","og_locale":"fr_FR","og_type":"article","og_title":"Gar\u00e7on \u00e0 la fen\u00eatre | Saprea","og_description":"James, survivante d'abus sexuels, partage son exp\u00e9rience et d\u00e9crit comment le temps et l'aide des bonnes personnes ont apport\u00e9 la gu\u00e9rison.","og_url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/","og_site_name":"Saprea","article_publisher":"https:\/\/facebook.com\/saprea.org","og_image":[{"width":810,"height":810,"url":"https:\/\/127.0.0.1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Boy-in-the-Window.jpeg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_site":"@saprea_org","twitter_misc":{"Dur\u00e9e de lecture estim\u00e9e":"2 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/","url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/","name":"Gar\u00e7on \u00e0 la fen\u00eatre | Saprea","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Boy-in-the-Window.jpeg","datePublished":"2024-07-22T18:11:33+00:00","description":"James, survivante d'abus sexuels, partage son exp\u00e9rience et d\u00e9crit comment le temps et l'aide des bonnes personnes ont apport\u00e9 la gu\u00e9rison.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"fr-FR","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"fr-FR","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Boy-in-the-Window.jpeg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Boy-in-the-Window.jpeg","width":810,"height":810},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/stories\/garcon-a-la-fenetre\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/page-daccueil-saprea\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Gar\u00e7on \u00e0 la fen\u00eatre"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#website","url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/","name":"Saprea","description":"","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"fr-FR"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#organization","name":"Saprea","url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"fr-FR","@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Vector-7-1.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Vector-7-1.png","width":106,"height":105,"caption":"Saprea"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"},"sameAs":["https:\/\/facebook.com\/saprea.org","https:\/\/x.com\/saprea_org","https:\/\/instagram.com\/youniquefoundation","https:\/\/pinterest.com\/saprea_org","https:\/\/youtube.com\/c\/saprea_org"]}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/stories\/28309","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/stories"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/stories"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/stories\/28309\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18899"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28309"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28309"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}