{"id":29513,"date":"2024-08-12T10:52:11","date_gmt":"2024-08-12T16:52:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/ich-werde-mich-nicht-laenger-schaemen\/"},"modified":"2024-08-12T10:52:11","modified_gmt":"2024-08-12T16:52:11","slug":"ich-werde-mich-nicht-laenger-schaemen","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/de\/stories\/ich-werde-mich-nicht-laenger-schaemen\/","title":{"rendered":"Ich werde mich nicht l\u00e4nger sch\u00e4men"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&#8222;Du warst ein Kind. Wie kann dich das immer noch so sehr st\u00f6ren?&#8220; <\/p>\n\n<p>Du w\u00e4rst \u00fcberrascht, wenn du w\u00fcsstest, wie oft mir diese Frage in meiner letzten Beziehung gestellt wurde. Ich glaube nicht, dass die Menschen die bleibenden Narben und Auswirkungen wirklich verstehen. In der Kindheit entwickeln sich unser Verstand und unsere Pers\u00f6nlichkeit noch. Wenn uns diese Unschuld genommen wird, ist das schrecklich und ungerecht.    <\/p>\n\n<p>Ich musste viel schneller erwachsen werden, als ich es h\u00e4tte tun sollen. Mir wurden viele erste Male genommen, und ich werde sie nie wieder zur\u00fcckbekommen. Ich werde immer die Absichten der Menschen hinterfragen und vorsichtig sein. Aber ich werde mich nicht l\u00e4nger f\u00fcr die Entscheidungen eines Monsters <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/de\/heilen\/scham\/?utm_source=stories&amp;utm_medium=shame&amp;utm_campaign=english\">sch\u00e4men<\/a>.    <\/p>\n\n<p>Heute gehe ich aufs College und verwirkliche meinen Traum, Sozialarbeiterin zu werden. Ich lebe in einer liebevollen, unterst\u00fctzenden Beziehung, in der ich zwei wunderbare Kinder und einen sch\u00f6nen und talentierten Teenager habe.  <\/p>\n\n<p>Ich trage meine Narben mit Stolz, denn sie haben mich zu dem gemacht, was ich heute bin. 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