{"id":28395,"date":"2024-07-22T13:20:41","date_gmt":"2024-07-22T19:20:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/stories\/er-schien-ein-super-netter-kerl-zu-sein\/"},"modified":"2024-07-22T13:20:41","modified_gmt":"2024-07-22T19:20:41","slug":"er-schien-ein-super-netter-kerl-zu-sein","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/saprea.org\/de\/stories\/er-schien-ein-super-netter-kerl-zu-sein\/","title":{"rendered":"Er schien ein super netter Kerl zu sein"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Es passierte, als ich in meinem letzten Jahr an der High School mit einem Typen zusammen war. Er schien nie der Typ zu sein, der solche Dinge tut, er schien ein super netter Kerl zu sein. Aber er war einfach sehr gut darin, sich vor anderen zu verstellen. Die Beziehung war nicht nur verbal und k\u00f6rperlich missbr\u00e4uchlich, sondern auch sexuell gewaltt\u00e4tig. In diesen vier Monaten \u00fcbernahm er die vollst\u00e4ndige Kontrolle \u00fcber mein Leben, so dass mein Gewicht auf 89 Pfund fiel.     <\/p>\n\n<p>Ich habe meiner Familie nie davon erz\u00e4hlt, weil ich mich <a href=\"https:\/\/saprea.org\/de\/heilen\/scham\/\">gesch\u00e4mt<\/a> habe, aber ich versuche, das hinter mir zu lassen, und ich hoffe, dass der Austausch meiner Geschichte mit anderen \u00dcberlebenden mir dabei helfen wird. Ich bin nicht mehr das gleiche naive M\u00e4dchen. Wegen dem, was mein Ex mir angetan hat, aber ich bin in gewisser Weise st\u00e4rker. Dank des Heilungsprozesses und meines besten Freundes, der an meiner Seite ist, wei\u00df ich so viel mehr \u00fcber mich selbst.    <\/p>\n\n<p>-Sam, Betroffene <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sam ist eine Betroffene von sexuellem Kindesmissbrauch. 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